Fine-Tune Your Communication Skills in the Crowded Disco

ianuarie 13, 2018 | Autor: | Posted in Fără categorie

There are some very neat tricks that you can use to have a better time at the disco. The way to socialize while being there is very different from the one, that you are used to when you are in a normal and quiet place. This calls for a completely different strategy, and this is what you are about to learn.

The key element of being in a disco is that there's a lot of noise. In order to be able to talk to someone, you need to lean to him and shout in his ear. You've done it a million times, but there is some sense of being more in contact with the person you are talking to.

So let's imagine the following situation. You are in disco with some friends as usual, and you see a girl, that you like. Unfortunately, she is with her friends too, and it looks like it is going to be tough for you to talk to her. Actually, it is just as easy, as if she was alone. Here's how you do it: You go to their table. You make up something like "Hey guys, do you think the DJ is a guy, or a girl? I'm having a little disagreement with my friend over there." You need to talk to some guy, who is obviously a friend of the girl you like. Since you are in a noisy place, you need to lean and talk to his ear. Then, you might talk to some other guy or girl on the table. As a result, they will all think that you know someone at the table.

So what you've done is simply to show some respect to the guys. Now you are free to talk to that special girl. Since she thinks that you two have a common friend, it will be easier for her to let her guard down. This will make it easy for you to do what you want to do – dance with her, get to know her … whatever! It's all up to you. I can only encourage you to try it.



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